Friday, 28 October 2011

Is monogamy too much to ask for in a relationship.

This is one particular topic that has caused lotta frictions in relationships. While I aint dishing out advice or whatever, I'm just bi-curious (jeez! Get a hold on yourself gurl!)

Shayla (original name withheld for privacy reasons) my girlfriend came back from visiting her boyfriend and been complaining bitterly bout how he suggested a threesome in their sex life. She cant take it... Isn't she enough for him? Was the question she threw at me... And whether I would do that for any man... caught in the crossfire, I just stared at her till she hit me...

Ok! I really hate to bust her bubbles but living in an adventurous world, men have really made threesomes or whatever "somes" are available the new sexual frontiers.
Now almost every man wants to see his girl kiss another girl or she watch while he makes out with another girl...

Well I can sincerely say its sooo much fun because it involves fantasies, allowing yourself to really come out.

Sorry ladies but the bottom line is men wants us to man up bout our emotional feelings and just go with it... While it sure can bring excitements into the relationship, it can be some pain in the ass.
Had an experience where my man wanted a threesome and I prepped myself to be the star guest (I still laugh hard weneva I remember this) but everyone had their agenda... He totally forgot I was there.. Hahahaha! Which eventually ended the relationship.

Before I could enjoy any threesomes, I would be emotionally detached. I dunnooo if it comes with the fact I'm a female and it has been genetically encoded inside me.... Bottom line is no woman can enjoy threesomes with whoever they're emotionally involved with.

So if you're not sexually expressive and accommodating,trust me.. they aint for you and ohh yes! Monogamy now comes with a price tag.

1 comment:

  1. please tell your friend to agree to threesome on 1 condition,another guy has to be invited..the thoughts alone would make him go